Hey Young Adults! Have you ever sat in class, staring at equations or historical dates, and wondered, “When will I ever use this?” Or maybe the pressure to perform feels overwhelming—like you’re stuck in a system that doesn’t always make sense or speak to your dreams.
You’re not alone. Many students struggle with that sense of irrelevance. But here’s the truth: you don’t have to wait for the system to change before you grow. You have the power to take ownership of your learning—right now.
At FinallyAmFound.com, we’re here to help you move from just “getting through school” to actually thriving—mentally, spiritually, and academically. Let’s explore eight simple but powerful ways to do that:
1. Find Your “Why”: Link School to What Matters Most
If a subject feels pointless, chances are you haven’t connected it to your personal mission yet. We all have unique talents and goals—and discovering how your learning fits into your bigger picture can flip everything around.
Try this: Ask yourself, “How could this help me down the road—in my career, in how I lead, or how I help others?” Maybe it’s not about the subject itself, but what it’s training in you: focus, grit, strategy.
2. Be an Active Learner: Don’t Just Sit There
Learning is way more effective when you’re part of it—not just watching it happen.
Try this: Instead of passively taking notes, teach the concept to a friend, build a mind map, or relate what you’ve learned to something real in your life. Even asking one question in class can help lock that concept in.
3. Build a Support System: You’re Not Supposed to Do This Alone
Whether it’s a mentor, teacher, older sibling, or a friend who “gets it,” having someone to guide or study with can boost both your confidence and results.
Try this: Reach out. Ask someone who’s been where you are to share what helped them. Join a study group—or start one. Think of it as a learning squad, not just schoolwork.
4. Take Care of Your Whole Self: Not Just Your Grades
When your mind, body, and emotions are stretched thin, it’s hard to learn well—let alone enjoy the process.
Try this: Make room in your schedule for sleep, movement, prayer, rest, and fun. Even 10 quiet minutes before class or a short walk after school can help reset your brain.
5. Grow Skills That Go Beyond the Classroom
Not everything you need is taught in school. Employers—and life—look for things like creativity, teamwork, and how you handle challenges.
Try this: Start a small passion project. Take a free online course. Help organize something in your community. These all count—and they build your confidence too.
6. Embrace the Tough Stuff: Growth Isn’t Always Easy
Everyone hits roadblocks. It doesn’t mean you’re not smart—it means you’re learning.
Try this: When things get tough, remind yourself it’s part of the process. Even failure can be feedback. What matters most is that you don’t quit.
7. Use Tech to Learn, Not Just Scroll
Your phone can either distract you—or become your best tutor.
Try this: Download apps like Khan Academy, Notion, or YouTube channels that break things down well. Use timers or focus apps to stay on track. Small tweaks make a big difference.
8. Stay Curious: Ask Better Questions
You don’t have to love every subject, but curiosity can turn even dull topics into a discovery.
Try this: Ask deeper questions like, “Why does this matter in the real world?” or “What can this teach me about people or how the world works?” Curiosity makes learning feel more like exploration than survival.
It’s Not Always About the Subject—Sometimes It’s About the Person You Become
Let’s be honest—not every subject will feel exciting. Some may even feel pointless. But here’s the surprise: those “tasteless” topics often come with hidden benefits that matter deeply in real life.
What They Actually Teach You:
- Mental stamina – Pushing through hard or dry content builds discipline.
- Interpersonal skills – Group work and class discussions help you practice collaboration and respectful disagreement.
- Respect for boundaries – You learn how to handle rules, deadlines, and authority—skills needed in every workplace or community.
- New dimensions of thought – Subjects like literature or science can stretch your thinking, helping you see from other people’s perspectives.
- Networking value – Learning how to connect with people in meaningful, respectful ways—and school gives you daily opportunities to build it.
Whether you’re asking a teacher for help, working in a group, or learning to communicate with classmates who think differently, you’re developing the ability to relate, collaborate, and build trust. These everyday interactions train you to express yourself clearly, listen well, and handle different personalities—skills that are valuable in any future career, relationship, or ministry.
It’s not about impressing others; it’s about growing into someone who can connect with confidence and purpose.
From a Faith Lens
God often uses the things we least expect to develop our character. What feels useless now might be building a part of your life story for later. Nothing is wasted in His hands.
Challenge for You
Next time you think, “This is pointless,” ask instead,
“What personal skill, mindset, or relationship might I be building here—even if the topic isn’t my thing?”
Your Learning Is Bigger Than You Think
You were never meant to just “survive” school. Even when subjects feel irrelevant, you can grow through them—with wisdom, confidence, and a bigger sense of purpose.
Start small. Choose just one of the eight ideas above to try this week.
It might not change the curriculum, but it will change you—and that’s the most powerful thing you can control.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, I feel the struggle sometimes, trying to connect what I’m learning in school to my real life and future. Please open my eyes, Lord, to see how every lesson, every challenge, and every topic is building something important in me for the unique path You have for me. Guide my mind, fuel my curiosity, and help me find Your presence and peace in all my studies. Help me to truly learn and grow for Your glory.
In Jesus Christ’s name I pray, Amen.
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Hey, I’m Angeline, your RN also a Counselor and founder of Finally Am Found. With a heart for mentorship, I’ve been guiding teens and young adults since 2017. As a Registered Nurse, I blend medical expertise with personal experiences to create a Christ-aligned space for self-discovery. Connect with Angeline on Facebook and let the journey to self-discovery begin!
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